How To Be A Real Man
Scott Stuart
This empowering picture book challenges rigid ideas of masculinity by encouraging boys to be true to themselves—whether that means being strong, gentle, emotional, creative, or kind. With rhyming text and bold illustrations, it invites all boys to define manhood on their own terms.
Why It’s Included
This title directly supports our community’s efforts to dismantle gender stereotypes and promote emotional expression. It offers an alternative vision of masculinity—one that includes softness, vulnerability, and authenticity—and affirms that there are many ways to be a “real” man.
Who It’s For
Recommended for children aged 4 to 10. An especially important read for boys exploring their identity, or for any child navigating expectations of gender roles. It’s also a powerful tool for parents, educators, and allies seeking to raise respectful, emotionally intelligent boys.
Further Reading
Be Your Own Man – Jessica Sanders
Some Boys – Nelly Thomas
