Friendship is Like a Seesaw

A Big Hug Book

Shona Innes, Írisz Agócs (Illustrator)

Using the familiar image of a seesaw, this book explores the ups and downs of friendship. It helps children recognise that friendships can sometimes feel unbalanced, and that it’s normal to experience change, conflict, or hurt feelings. The book encourages communication, kindness, and mutual respect.

Why It’s Included

This title offers a developmentally appropriate way to discuss the complexities of friendships, especially in early childhood. It encourages empathy, healthy boundaries, and repair—all essential skills in gentle and respectful social learning.

Who It’s For

Ideal for children aged 4 to 8, especially those navigating playground dynamics or sibling relationships. A lovely resource for preschool, prep, or home life, it prompts reflective conversations in a gentle and engaging way.

Further Reading

• The Hug Blanket – Chris Gurney

• Grumpy Monkey – Suzanne Lang