Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids: How to Stop Yelling and Start Connecting
Dr. Laura Markham
2012
This book offers a clear, practical framework for parents who want to move away from reactive, punitive approaches and build a more connected, cooperative relationship with their children. Dr. Laura Markham introduces three core ideas: regulating yourself as a parent (self-awareness and emotional management), connecting with your child (building trust and emotional safety), and coaching rather than controlling (guiding instead of punishing).
The book blends neuroscience, developmental psychology, and gentle parenting strategies in an accessible, encouraging style.
Why It’s Included
Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids is deeply aligned with the SNPN philosophy of respectful, responsive parenting. It emphasizes connection over correction, and relationship over obedience. Dr. Markham validates children's emotions, discourages punishment and rewards, and offers concrete tools for self-regulation — all consistent with a biologically normal, attachment-focused approach to parenting.
Who It’s For
Ideal for parents and caregivers who want to reduce conflict and create a calmer, more emotionally secure environment at home. Especially helpful for parents who struggle with yelling or power struggles and are looking for actionable, compassionate strategies to shift patterns.
Also useful for educators, family support workers, and grandparents who want to better understand gentle discipline approaches.
““I often recommend this book to families in our community who are ready to move beyond traditional discipline and deepen their connection with their children. It’s practical, research-informed, and truly empowering.””
Further Reading
The Whole-Brain Child - Dr. Daniel Siegel & Dr. Tina Payne Bryson
No-Drama Discipline - Dr. Daniel Siegel & Dr. Tina Payne Bryson
