Letting Go As Children Grow

Deborah Jackson

2003

This warm and insightful book examines the often emotional and complex journey of giving children increasing independence. Deborah Jackson explores how we can support our children’s growing autonomy while maintaining strong, connected relationships through each stage of development — from babyhood through to adolescence.

Why It’s Included

This title aligns with our belief that parenting is a gradual process of stepping back with love. It supports parents to trust in their children’s natural development, manage separation with empathy, and approach milestones like starting school or sleeping alone with understanding and respect.

Who It’s For

Perfect for parents navigating changes in their child’s independence — whether it’s the first night apart, the first day at school, or the everyday letting go that comes with growing up. It offers perspective and reassurance for families following a responsive and connection-based approach.

“Some people are under the misguided belief that attachment parenting leads to clingy, dependent children. The opposite is true: with a secure foundation, children grow independence. The end result is humans who are secure, confident and resilient.”

— Yvette O'Dowd

Further Reading

• The Starting School Book – Sarah Ockwell-Smith

• Between – Sarah Ockwell-Smith

• Parenting by Heart – Pinky McKay

• The Whole-Brain Child – Daniel J. Siegel & Tina Payne Bryson