Attached at the Heart: Eight Proven Parenting Principles for Raising Connected and Compassionate Children
Barbara Nicholson & Lysa Parker
This foundational text from the co-founders of Attachment Parenting International outlines eight core principles for parenting with empathy, respect, and deep connection. Attached at the Heart weaves together research, practical suggestions, and personal reflections to offer a roadmap for nurturing secure relationships with children from infancy through to adolescence. Rather than offering a rigid program, it invites parents to trust their instincts and make responsive choices that honour both child and parent.
Why It’s Included:
This book is a cornerstone of modern attachment parenting and reflects many of the values shared in this community: emotional responsiveness, breastfeeding, nurturing touch, respectful discipline, and the importance of parental presence in early childhood. Nicholson and Parker offer a gentle, encouraging tone throughout, supporting parents to make thoughtful choices without shame or guilt. The updated edition includes new research and more inclusive language, continuing to evolve with modern parenting realities.
Who It’s For:
Ideal for parents seeking a broad introduction to attachment-based parenting, especially in the early years. It will also be appreciated by educators, doulas, and family support workers who want to offer a grounded and holistic perspective on early parenting. The format is accessible and affirming, making it suitable for both first-time and experienced parents.
“This book is a beautifully gentle guide to raising children with empathy, trust, and deep connection at the center. Nicholson and Parker give parents practical tools while encouraging us to follow our hearts. I love how it affirms that nurturing strong relationships is the true heart of parenting.””
Further Reading:
Raising Securely Attached Kids by Eli Harwood
Good Inside by Dr Becky Kennedy
The Aware Baby by Aletha Solter
